Today I forgot my phone at home.
I realized that I forgot it when I was at that point where I was still close enough to home to go back but far enough where it would add extra time to my commute. I checked the clock and decided that I was already running a bit behind so I said forget it.
Although I made the right (or should I say responsible so I wouldn’t be late for work) choice I was still dreading my day without my phone. It’s going to be a pain. Even though I will have my laptop I will still need my phone.
As I drove to work I contemplated my first hurdle (which I was sure would be the first of many without my phone)- I need to be able to get in touch with my husband about after school pick up for my daughter. What a day this is going to be.
However as I drove on I remembered that I could just have my close friend at work text my husband for me so he knows I don’t have my phone and I could use her phone or our school phone to call if I needed. And I could always send an email.
First hurdle jumped but I am sure there would be more I needed my phone for
BUT nope there wasn’t..
True I “missed” it when I wanted to listen to my own music on the way to school.
I “missed” it when I was wondering if the gray skies I saw meant rain coming and I couldn’t easily check the weather.
I “missed” it when I couldn’t check my personal email at lunch to play Scrabble with my friend.
I “missed” it when I arrived 10 minutes early to pick up Reese at art class and didn’t have it to clean out email or flip through facebook.
But I never “needed” it. I “missed” it but never needed it. Day went on just fine.
My husband asked/joked that since I had such a fine day without my phone and didn’t “need it” if I was going to start leaving it at home..
My response?
Let’s not get crazy here!!
So true! Not the end of the world when I have forgotten it, but enough to feel weird without it . . . and that was when I had my flip phone! I am glad you survived!
Haha I totally know what you mean about the initial panic of leaving your phone at home but realizing that maybe it helps us be a little more in the moment. Nicely done!
I have forgotten my phone several times, but I wasn’t as responsible as you. I’ve had my husband drop it off on his way to work. Good thing his work is close to mine.
On the days I have forgotten my phone I feel completely lost or anxious on what I am missing out on. Makes you realize how sadly dependendent we are on our cell phones, or should I say how much we WANT to stay connected to the outside world all day long. We don’t NEED to stay connected.